This is the 1st blog that we are posting which would only be a short blog.
The main reason why we have created this blog due to Miss Azlin's instructions to us.. ^_^ .
As 1st and foremost, this 1st blog would introduce ourself.
Our Group is called "SUPER-LADIES" the reason why we choosed this name is because our group is only consisted of all female members...
Our 5 Super-LAdies includes:
- Vui Mei
- Shirley
- Kah Ling
- Lin Yin
- Judith
Hello to all and that's all for our 1st blog.. Be sure to expect more of the blogs we wrote as there would be more to come... !
Thanks to all...
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Nowadays, premarital sex is very famous among all the teenagers nowadays. So, it is not neccessary have to keep the duty till the moment when we married.
Anyway, it is depends. Some of the chirstian would feel that they should loyal to their lord. However, due to the forces of the society nowadays, the trend has changed. Teenagers get influnced of the culture from western especially. Thus, the percentage of getting in premarital sex is high in the scoiety nowadays.
it has been the hottest debate topic among the ppl now about the pre-marriage sex. in my point of view, you should not have thought of it literately or theoritically when we refering to some religious teaching and some acedemic sex teaching. however, having pre-marital sex has been a common act nowadays, exspecially for teenagee. biologically talking on this issue, everybody has a need of sex. sometimes rationality cant control what a people wants.you just know you want it and you cant resist it.
as a conclusion, it depends on whther you willing to commit on this sp called "mistake" or not. for me, pre-marital sex is still acceptable.
Since your team's name is SuperLadies so I assume the team are all females. First and foremost, I applaud to the title that you have picked up for your project but upon reading your blogs, I really hope all of you practiced what you have preached. Otherwise, what is the point of posting such blog? The more that is written, the more you lie to yourself.
Well then, reading acid's comment was a little shocking but then again, he is not wrong at all and ladies, you're right, premarital sex is the 'in' trend nowadays and this isn't something that you teenagers should be proud of. Do you know what leads to such an embarassing event? Hormones. As teenagers grow up into the adulthood, we change. With hormones raging, one would tend to find 'love' and it is this sort of thing that is called 'Puppy Love'. While it is not wrong to like a person, it is important that we or especially the ladies to know the limitations. During the relationship, couple would be so much in 'love' that they would almost give up anything they have for their partner and obviously, this implies to virginity. Studies have shown that once females lose their vriginity, they would likely yearn for more. With the aforementioned hormones rage, the logical thinking of a person would be blinded from the reality.
What acidpunk have said is true, premarital sex is common especially among teenagers and almost everybody have the 'need' or 'desire' for it. But then again, we try not to observe too much of the world's trend namely, the pornography. Yes, pornography is the cause of pre-marital sex. Coupled with raged hormones, this is 'love' formula to be married with the word 'make'.
In short, it is true that such commitment is dependent on one but to bear in mind, committing such act would lose self-respect and it is nothing one should be proud of. Can you imagine if you're just in the early 20's and you have already given up your virginity? What's worse is, during the sexual intercourse, it seem so real, you felt so much 'love' but in the end, it all comes to a screeching halt by words of, "Let's break up". Virginity is a gift and should be treasured and given only when you know you're ready, not think you're ready. Rather than having relationships, do something that is beneficial, study, earn money and etc etc. Imagine, premarital sex determines your future where you're just a paper thin rubber away from being bloated and once that happen, your friends and your life wouldn't be of a success. So, superladies, as much as you blogged, think about it.
Step 1 ( Introduction )
The area of this comment falls under whether a premature sex is valid before marriage.
Step 2 ( Applying relevant knowledge )
Pre-marital sex is something that everyone is familiar with nowadays. Some may define it as a sensitive issue but some may define it in another direction. Hence a person could not be judge by how an individual is defining it. It is actually an individual thinking which will contribute to this matter. Relating this to the case by Cresta [October 22, 2007 9:09 AM]. In this case if a person is more to religious, then this is a wrongful act and if a person is more to desire and temptation, this may not be a wrongful to them. Therefore it can be ruled that individual thinking is one of the main thing which determine whether or not having pre-marital sex is wrong.
In the case of Warheads [October 22, 2007 11:48 AM], it state that “Someone might want to train his or her skills in bed before he or she entertain each other during or after marriage”. This however is the opposite case presented by Cresta. From the point of viewers, such act is called “disgraced” as it only shows a bad influence of “SEX”. It is also discrimination toward a movie produce by the ancient called “KAMASUTRA”. Such movies are made to impose the real meaning of sex which is totally opposite from what Warheads is saying. Therefore the case presented by Warhead should not be considered.
Whether or not having pre-marital sex is wrong are more detail presented in the case study by Endless v j Tan [ October 22, 2007]. In this case the defendant ( Endless ) state that “ Sex is a big part of a marriage “ while the plaintiff ( j Tan ) is against it based on the fact that he has psychology. Definition of psychology is an act that was / has been done by an individual by his thought of mind ( www.Wikipedia.com ). If he the plaintiff has psychology then he should not be commenting on the defendant comment. The plaintiff also state that the key is 'self-respect' and responsibility in pre-marital sex. If the defendant has psychology as stated then his statement is DOUBTFULL to be considered against the defendant.
Step 3 ( Applying the knowledge )
In the author opinion, pre-marital sex happens due to two parties. In this case it would be from the men and women. An individual may say he is Holy or he will only have sex when he is married. However the truth is that there is nothing that can stop a person to have sex when both are “in it”. To say that pre-marital sex is wrong, then the world would be full of sinners. But to say that pre-marital sex is not wrong then the world will be full of “rapist”. It is not meant that the author is agreeing with both conditions. The author would like to stress out that pre-marital sex does not simply come nor does it simply goes. An individual should think by them self why does this pre-marital sex exist in the first place. From the opinion of the author, pre-marital sex could not be said wrong if both parties have love towards each other and has faith or confident that their relationship will last forever. Realize that we are living in the 20 century but not in the age of stone. But a pre-marital sex can be classified as wrong doing if an individual (mostly male) are only interested in playing around. In other words it’s “PLAYBOY”. Hence the true main topic that should be ask in this post out should be the reason for pre-marital sex to happen and what is best for an individual to wonder around in his/ her mind before having a pre-marital sex instead of defining whether is it wrong or not to have pre-marital sex.
Step 4 ( Conclusion )
It appears that pre-marital sex is commonly question. No doubt that pre-marital sex is wrong before marriage but it still lies in an individual thinking on pre-marital sex.
I would like to see more of girls' comment on these cause they're the ones who are the stakeholder here. Guys, no problem, who can tell they are not virgin?Girls?You can run away but you can't hide.
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